Handjob Tips

Have you ever heard of a happy ending massage? Wondering why nobody explodes with cum from your handjobs? Well, the workers of spa salons know something you don’t. And I’m here to tell you how to drive him crazy by giving him an amazing handjob.  
Mastering the art of a great handjob is like having a secret weapon in your sexual toolkit. And it’s not as simple as just stroking this thing monotonously the same way over and over again, unless you need just an exercise for your arms. The good thing is that it’s way easier to make a penis cum rather than a vagina, as long as you know wtf you are doing.

Let’s break down how to stroke it so he can actually enjoy it as a main course.

Watch and Learn:
First of all, if you are new to this and you have no clue what to do with his dick, start by watching your partner masturbate and try to mimic their movements. He figured it out decades ago, and nobody knows how to do it better than him. You can watch a porn video together and watch each other getting off to learn.

Eye Contact:
Same as with a BJ—if you are down there doing something and not even looking in his eyes, it makes it feel like you are just working down there instead of giving pleasure. When one is standing and the other kneeling, making occasional eye contact is super sexy.

Use Lube:
Whatever you do—whether it’s sucking, licking, or giving a handjob—everything must feel like a WAP for the penis to make it pleasurable. You won’t be able to stroke it long enough or change techniques with your dry hands. The cock doesn’t produce any liquid like a vagina (unless we are talking about cum), but to get to those fireworks, you gotta lube it up. The wetter, the better. Yes, maybe you can stroke it a few times with your dry hands, but this is not a handjob. It doesn’t make sense to learn techniques if you are hesitant to use lube.

Aim for a consistent, firm grip. It’s not a flower—grab it like you mean it. Adjust pressure and experiment with different techniques. It should never feel like you are doing the same thing over and over again.

Try adding a twisting motion, using both hands, or incorporating different speeds and pressures. You could also use your other hand to stimulate other erogenous zones like the nipples or perineum. 

Play with precum—don’t miss this juiciness. Once he is already pre-cuming, the good thing is he is turned on, and you are on the right track. Now spread his precum with your finger all over his head. It’s never too much lube, remember.

And it’s always a good idea at least to try to give a handjob in public places. It’s way more discreet than giving head or fucking in public places. You can just pretend it wasn’t that and quickly pull your hands away from his cock. In the car while he is driving, or on public transport if there are not too many people around. Just cover it with your jacket and jerk it off when only you and he know what’s going on. Just remember to be discreet!