Handjob Techniques

Hey guys! Today we talk about a very important skill to have. Learning how to give a great hand job is a secret weapon that not many women have. Forget about stroking it the same way, over and over again. Hand job is an art and many workers of spa salons can bring any client to the happiest ending in minutes. They def know something you don’t know! These tips will make your man beg you for more, I promise.

Get into a hot position

Depending on your flexibility, there are a few positions that can be really hot. You can easily make eye contact by using face-to-face positions. This will help you intensify the experience. The receiver can sit down (or stand up) and kneel in front of you, or both of you can get comfortable on the bed. You can use positions that allow for mutual action as well. If you like 69, you can also try alternating between oral sex and a handjob. 

Know How Long or Short Your Strokes should be

The key here is to stretch the skin of the penis at a comfortable length as you stroke it. If you pull too far down, you’ll put strain on the skin directly beneath his glans (head of the penis), which hurts and will make it go soft. If you go too high, you knock against his glans which is more sensitive and needs to be handled like a baby’s head.

Lube It Up

Avoid oils and lotions like coconut oil, since those shouldn’t be used near the urethra. Consider silicone based lube if you want to perform your handjob in the shower (it doesn’t wash off with water). Water based and hybrid lubes can also work magic. Make sure you use lube even if your partner is not completely hard yet. You want him to experience the fully wet sensation while you warm upm don’t you? The sloppier the HJ, the better. 

Get your partner hard by your hands

Use your palm and fingers to caress your partner’s shaft and balls until he has a full erection. Alternate with different textures and intensity of pressure. You can start with lightly tickling your partner’s dick with your fingertips or using your entire palm to gently rub his penis, starting from the base of his shaft and moving slowly up to the tip. Once you’ve reached the top, draw circles on the head with all five fingers and gently squeeze and rub. 

Set the pace

Slow and steady “wins” the race hand job — at least to start things off.  Speed is important. I recommend starting with slower, longer strokes, and then speeding up as he gets closer to cumming.

Try a combination “hand job and blowjob”. You can make your partner feel great using just a hand job or just a blow job — or you can try combining a hand job with oral sex. Try licking your partner’s balls while stroking the shaft of his penis with your hand.

           Use both hands and Mix it Up. If you feel more confident, try varying your technique.

Maybe you should add toys as well

You might have your partner wear a vibrating cock ring while you stroke him. Either of you can wear a butt plug as well. For men prostate stimulation feels very good in combo with HJ. Besides, you can also use a ball stroker. It’s super cheap and costs around 10 USD. You put a lubed sleeve on the penis and stroke it. Bumps and ridges provide additional stimulation for the penis. Don’t forget about yourself, put a wearable vibrator on your clitoris or sit on a dildo with suction cup while you are giving a HJ

Stimulate his asshole. If your partner is into and consents to anal play, you can accompany your HJ with fingering or oral sex. While you’re working his penis with one hand, lower your head down between his legs. Use your hands to spread their legs open, and with the tip of your tongue draw small circles around his asshole, then directly on the opening. If your partner moans or starts breathing faster, you know you’re doing that right. And if your partner gives you the green light for anal fingering, don’t be shy to do that. After applying the  lube, very gently insert your finger.   

Pay attention to your partner’s body language

Keep an eye out for your partner’s body signals, like faster breathing and/or moaning, to know what speed and intensity of pressure are turning him on.

Touch yourself

Just because you’re not on the receiving end of manual stimulation from your partner doesn’t mean you can’t make use of your free hand yourself! It’s probably hot to watch your partner enjoy the handjob you’re giving them, and the better you feel, the more likely your partner will feed off of your energy. Because the best handjob is the one that you get, too. Seeing you masturbate will majorly turn your boyfriend on and you’ll be making yourself feel great. It’s a win-win.

Focus on pleasure, not the orgasm

It often happens that penis owners get too focused on reaching orgasm and miss a lot of opportunities to please their partner. Why not slow things down, encourage communication, and show your enthusiasm for giving pleasure to your partner?